There... you all have no more excuse not to donate and support the crazy girls (and guys) in pixie wings while they bowl to raise money for kids.  Go, do good deeds and make kids happy or I'll throw mud balls at you cause the snow has melted!

Confusion is such an insufficient word for a feeling.

You’re trapped by the freedom to choose from so many options. Do you open your mouth and ruin things for everyone involved by following your own policy of honesty? Or do you lie by omission? Keep your head in the sand and let them do the same because you know a secret nobody has to keep is safer then trusting the rickety bridge over that chasm?